No matter what we got through whether that moment is devastating or not they are moments in which shape the person in which we are meant to be. The things we experience do have an order and half the time they don't make sense but thats life. We spend all our time worrying about all the bad things that occur in life instead of focusing on the little things in life that we are too naive to actually appreciate. open your eyes and sit back and enjoy the ride, especially the small ones! :)